2. “You’re Overreacting”
Flip the blame much? This one’s a masterclass in deflection, turning the spotlight from her slip-up to your “emotional” response. “Why are you making such a big deal out of this?” she’ll say, eyes wide with feigned innocence. It’s designed to make you doubt your instincts, like you’re the one blowing things out of proportion. Spicy twist: Deep down, it’s her panic button, buying time while she scrambles for a better story. If this hits home, ask yourself—would a loyal partner ever utter this?
