4. “I Was Lonely/Drunk/Stressed—You Weren’t There”
Enter the excuse parade. Blaming external factors is her way of shifting responsibility onto you or the universe. “You were always working,” or “I had too much to drink,” turns her choice into your fault. It’s a spicy cocktail of guilt-tripping and victim-playing, making you question if you’re the villain. Reality check: True loyalty doesn’t crumble under pressure. This line? It’s often a smokescreen for deeper dissatisfaction—or just plain entitlement.
